Assalammualaikummmm~
All of us want an everlasting
relationship lah kan of course. We always imagine that we will be happy here
ever after with our partner. But, you know, sometimes things don’t happen
according what we’ve planned -.-
So sad, kan?
I’ve been through this ‘clash
thingy’ once. I admit lah of course I was like why we were over? Why he doesn’t
love me anymore? Why he did that to me? Like why? Why? WHY?!, pftttttt-
And honestly, I don’t want my
current relationship end up like that again, phewwww`
Then one fine day, I was like
scrolled down my news feed on Facebook and people were like “I’m single”, “We
are not a couple anymore”, “He cheated” blah blah blah something like that lah
kan. Then I updated my status like, “Sekarang niyh musim orang putus cinta ker?”
You know what? I feel bad for
them. I know how it feels.
But, girls, you can get
through this alone! LIKE SERIOUSLY! O.o
Don’t check his Facebook,
Twitter or Blog just to find what he’s doing without you. Don’t text him, don’t
chat with him, don’t BBM him, because when you don’t get any reply you will be
more frustrated if you find out that he’s doing well without you. You have to
prove to him that you can live your life well without him too. Just don’t care
what he will do with his life, just care about yours. You will be more happy if
you careless about him and make him realise that you are great and independent
without someone call as boyfriend.
You are single now, but
believe me, if he is the one, he will go nowhere. If you are meant to be
together, you will be. Kalau jodoh tak ke mana, aye?
Just believe, if he is the one,
he will come back to you. If he doesn’t, don’t forget that there are 7 billion
people out there, he is not the only guy in this world.
I know that sometimes you just
can’t get through this entire situation because you love him so much. Someone taught
me that love needs two people who are agree to give full commitment to each other.
But, if one of them let that responsibility away, so it doesn’t matter if you
are the only one who fights for this relationship.
It’s not worth it.
If you really love yourself,
sure you wanna give the best for yourself. Why do you want to waste your time
to someone who doesn’t give his best to you? If he really loves you, he will accept
all of your weakness and flaws.
...and what if he doesn’t?
Well, you know what you have
to do.
DON’T CHANGE YOURSELF.
CHANGE YOUR MAN.
So, girls, I’m not saying that
I have a perfect relationship ever, like duhhhhh-
But I bet I’ve learned my
lessons.
DON’T LET YOURSELF TO BE LIKE A
CHEWING GUM. HE LIKES YOU WHEN YOU ARE SWEET AND HE ‘PHEWWS’ YOU WHEN YOU ARE
TASTELESS.
Be with the right person, and
you will be happy.
This is not a story that my
relationship is end already, we are still and I hope it will be last forever.
I wish he will understand my
crazy bitch behaviour because truly deep inside, I don’t wanna lose him.
I love him til infinity.
*eyyuuuu, jiwang nyewwwwww! Hehe
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