All of us want an everlasting relationship lah kan of course. We always imagine that we will be happy here ever after with our partner. But, you know, sometimes things don’t happen according what we’ve planned -.-
So sad, kan?
I’ve been through this ‘clash thingy’ once. I admit lah of course I was like why we were over? Why he doesn’t love me anymore? Why he did that to me? Like why? Why? WHY?!, pftttttt-
And honestly, I don’t want my current relationship end up like that again, phewwww`
Then one fine day, I was like scrolled down my news feed on Facebook and people were like “I’m single”, “We are not a couple anymore”, “He cheated” blah blah blah something like that lah kan. Then I updated my status like, “Sekarang niyh musim orang putus cinta ker?”
You know what? I feel bad for them. I know how it feels.
But, girls, you can get through this alone! LIKE SERIOUSLY! O.o
Don’t check his Facebook, Twitter or Blog just to find what he’s doing without you. Don’t text him, don’t chat with him, don’t BBM him, because when you don’t get any reply you will be more frustrated if you find out that he’s doing well without you. You have to prove to him that you can live your life well without him too. Just don’t care what he will do with his life, just care about yours. You will be more happy if you careless about him and make him realise that you are great and independent without someone call as boyfriend.
You are single now, but believe me, if he is the one, he will go nowhere. If you are meant to be together, you will be. Kalau jodoh tak ke mana, aye?
Just believe, if he is the one, he will come back to you. If he doesn’t, don’t forget that there are 7 billion people out there, he is not the only guy in this world.
I know that sometimes you just can’t get through this entire situation because you love him so much. Someone taught me that love needs two people who are agree to give full commitment to each other. But, if one of them let that responsibility away, so it doesn’t matter if you are the only one who fights for this relationship.
It’s not worth it.
If you really love yourself, sure you wanna give the best for yourself. Why do you want to waste your time to someone who doesn’t give his best to you? If he really loves you, he will accept all of your weakness and flaws.
...and what if he doesn’t?
Well, you know what you have to do.
DON’T CHANGE YOURSELF.
CHANGE YOUR MAN.
So, girls, I’m not saying that I have a perfect relationship ever, like duhhhhh-
But I bet I’ve learned my lessons.
DON’T LET YOURSELF TO BE LIKE A CHEWING GUM. HE LIKES YOU WHEN YOU ARE SWEET AND HE ‘PHEWWS’ YOU WHEN YOU ARE TASTELESS.
Be with the right person, and you will be happy.
This is not a story that my relationship is end already, we are still and I hope it will be last forever.
I wish he will understand my crazy bitch behaviour because truly deep inside, I don’t wanna lose him.
I love him til infinity.
*eyyuuuu, jiwang nyewwwwww! Hehe
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